tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post5525445366697287056..comments2024-03-03T00:18:44.722-07:00Comments on What's Cooking?: Grief? Oh yeah, I forgot.Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04104586178325771559noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-35622595394189541422009-02-17T20:49:00.000-07:002009-02-17T20:49:00.000-07:00becca- i really know what you're talking about...becca- i really know what you're talking about. i experienced very similar thoughts & emotions after my best friend from high school died our senior year. i remember feeling strange & sad when i would tell people 'yeah, last year my best friend died', b/c it didn't really have the effect like it did before. it's just weird. but all part of it. even though i haven't commented very much on your blog, i have read your posts a lot and have been really floored by your honesty and ability to articulate what you're experiencing. press on, friend. i can't wait to meet Molly girl.Cindy Loftonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17152840468463724619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-13437915591472637972009-02-06T19:37:00.000-07:002009-02-06T19:37:00.000-07:00Becca,I continue to pray for you and Jake. I can'...Becca,<BR/><BR/>I continue to pray for you and Jake. I can't speak on what you're going through, but just know that I think about you often. <BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>JessicaJessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12357086987994705976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-45582166225537876812009-02-06T08:18:00.000-07:002009-02-06T08:18:00.000-07:00Rebecca-not sure if you will remember me, but we w...Rebecca-not sure if you will remember me, but we worked at kanakuk a long time ago. i just found your blog and had already read your story, but reading your perspective brought tears to my eyes. thanks for sharing and you are in my prayers and thoughts. <BR/><BR/>rebecca zellmer now atcherson<BR/>zellmerfud.blogspot.comRebecca (Sam's wife)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09111492782471805076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-57558340984021508282009-02-03T17:51:00.000-07:002009-02-03T17:51:00.000-07:00I understand wanting to "savor" your memories. It...I understand wanting to "savor" your memories. It's hard to not have very many memories to savor though and wishing for the things that could have been. I now have an added distraction, that makes me forget this particular date or that particular date and then I feel sad. Grief is hard enough without having to feel guilty when we don't feel sad or don't remember. I'm glad you're enjoying your puppy though. Blessings! Zephaniah 3:17Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343969561417373936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-86016388545419911022009-02-02T14:57:00.000-07:002009-02-02T14:57:00.000-07:00Oh Becca...thank you for sharing your thoughts. I ...Oh Becca...thank you for sharing your thoughts. I think it's completely understandable to have moved on in some ways and yet feel guilty about it at the same time. You and Jacob are in our prayers. <BR/><BR/>~ KatieKatie Leipprandthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15694484958188731644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-19267595939247208832009-02-01T20:29:00.000-07:002009-02-01T20:29:00.000-07:00Becca, you're an incredible writer. Thank you for ...Becca, you're an incredible writer. Thank you for letting us be a part of this with you. <BR/><BR/>Lots of love,<BR/>xoxo<BR/><BR/>LaurieLWBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09682711604985810505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6930154992656197046.post-69456506718052953452009-02-01T12:35:00.000-07:002009-02-01T12:35:00.000-07:00continuing my prayers for you sweet friend! You a...continuing my prayers for you sweet friend! You all were on my mind A LOT in church this morning for some reason. Know I love you and am praying. Liv has sent three of her birthday balloons up to heaven. Very cute! :-)Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01156382746366643185noreply@blogger.com